The cat continues to come back and eat food I put out for him, but still will not let me pet him. If he comes back tomorrow I will name him Four Sox and a Mitten, sort of like in that Kevin Costner turning into an Indian movie.
J.T. and Cali lived as husband and wife - he was a great dad to Cow and all the kittens. When J.T. died, we had a ceremony. He is still missed in our home.